Thursday, September 07, 2006,
I am totally peeved with naive people who claims that "I am willing to die for my friends". Seriously, are these people's naiveity drives them to a point of sheer stupidness? I mean are you really 100% sure that you consider the people you mixed around with are called friends? Would you die for a bunch of "friends" whom you have gotten to know like within a day or something? Come on get real people. The word "Friend" is such an easy term to place on people whom we know for a couple of days or hours. Besides, are you extremely sure that this "friends" of your's willing to lay down their lives for you? Chances are maybe out of 9 in 10 most will run away except for the particular 1 whom we consider and deem as worthless in our social circle. It's this particular 1 person whom we do not want to associate with that is really willing to lay down for their life. The saying "True friends are friends who have gone through thick and thin together" has been so distorted that those who we consider as our closest and truest friend turn their back on us. It's this people whom when we encounter problems or difficulties that we turned to for help, reject our plea and refuse to stand up for us. I won't say i have seen so many cases but i've experienced cases and read other people's experience to know what i am talking about. To me, i feel that true friends no matter what situations, tells the ugly truth to you, be in constant contact with you 24/7 and let's you know that you're special by doing something out of the extraordinary. You may have the constant arguments(who wouldn't in friendships) but it's this argument that bridges the differences and us together. A friend of mine back during primary school told me how much she missed her friends back in secondary school(when her friends have graduated) so i told her how would she know whether this bunch of people will remember you(in this case her)? Are you extremely sure you have make an impact in their live to let them know the differences that you have made? Or are you basically just plain ASSUMING and terming them "friends" because you are extremely sure you are so close to every "friends" that you have made? Even i myself have difficulty getting close to all of my friends that i have made except for the few whom i can safely say they are my real friends because they don't put up any false fronts and are not pretentious. These friends are what i consider true friends because they are comfortable in their own skin and couldn't care less of what other people think. Aren't you just plain shameless to claim that you are special in all of your "friends" heart? I doubt you even know that you have been emotionally maniupulated by them. And i'm sure you refuse to see this point that they claim that they are your friends but in actual fact when you're out of the picture, they backstabbed you ruthlessly without your knowledge. Sure you may know but you refuse to admit it 'cos they are you "FRIENDS"!Geesh get a life would you? If you wanna lay down your life for your friends i suggest you find who are worthy for that honour if not you would have died in vain.
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